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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 1. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

Since the start of this century, the world has been steadily progressing in technology, development, equality, and freedom, whether in personal life, social life, or living within the framework of the law. Alongside these advancements, people worldwide are striving to build a fairer and more stable society for everyone, especially between men and women as well as the way gender-wise someone is born. This includes promoting equality in education and financial independence, ensuring access to basic necessities for mental and physical well-being, and addressing women’s rights regarding childbirth.

However, many governments and politicians around the world have not been able to effectively address and stabilize these issues. Even though they hold positions funded by taxpayers, the equitable provision of rights—especially for women—is often overlooked. As mentioned earlier, the lack of financial independence among women is particularly concerning, as statistics suggest that 80% of women worldwide are not financially independent before marriage, and often do not possess the same assets as their husbands. Interestingly, many husbands legally face similar financial limitations as their wives. This disparity can lead to significant problems in married life over time.

Additionally, it is common in many countries for women to move into their husband’s home after marriage, which often includes living with other family members. In such cases, these families—including the husband—may have unrealistic expectations for the new bride, seeking perfection from her, even when they themselves have flaws of their own. Imagine a scenario where the bride is a sober, kind-hearted person but emotionally fragile—she may face significant challenges if her new home environment lacks the same qualities. This highlights the importance of addressing these societal norms and fostering a supportive environment for all individuals.

If a woman is not financially independent and does not have access to even the most basic necessities on her own, she may lack options to leave a marriage—especially if it becomes unbearable. However, if women worldwide were to have at least the essentials secured independently, as is often the case with men, it would provide them with the choice to leave their husband’s home if they were abused.

Furthermore, in some countries, particularly in families below the poverty line, those living in poverty, the working poor, or the struggling middle class, the education of sons may still take precedence over daughters. Even after marriage, many women possess little to no assets of their own, which limits their ability to make independent decisions—such as leaving an unhappy marriage.

At the same time, it is not entirely fair to blame men for all the discrimination and injustices faced by women worldwide. Why? Because even today, many women around the world continue to believe that providing them at least basics in life is a man’s duty, responsibility, and obligation. Beside this, some women still may think that physical beauty alone is sufficient, as it is perceived as their asset. They might rely on the idea that a wealthy man would be willing to provide for them financially just to have them in his life. However, as we all know, physical beauty diminishes over time. Therefore, it may not be wise for a woman to base her beliefs or decisions solely on the notion that physical beauty alone is sufficient to achieve success and earn everything in life. However, at the same time, one cannot completely deny that some individuals do make a good living primarily because they are physically good looking from head to toe—and often enjoy many advantages in life as a result as well. Besides this since the internet and the world wide web accessible to nearly everyone on the planet, many people have begun earning a good living from the comfort of their rooms simply because they are naturally good-looking, even without makeup or enhancements.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 2. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

Otherwise, if some men marry women solely for their physical beauty, those women may find themselves abandoned when they need support the most. This raises the question: should such men marry at all? Likewise, women should avoid marrying men who value them only for their appearance. After spending a decade together—or 20, 30, or even 40 years—it can be incredibly difficult for a woman to live without her partner in old age. As we all know, physical attraction tends to fade with age, unless someone possesses immense wealth.

Additionally, now almost everyone worldwide is desperate to live lavishly, which often leads to superficial relationships. Wealthy individuals may divorce older partners to pursue younger ones, paying millions in settlements. At the same time, in some cases, divorce settlements—though made under the pretense of justice—can leave men financially destitute in their old age or any age, as children and former spouses may receive the majority of assets and support. Therefore, judicial systems across the world should recognize and address these imbalances to uphold fairness and provide long-term financial stability for all parties involved before making a judgement. Otherwise, every relationship risks being misused as a legal tool for financial extortion. In the long run, this can be disastrous—not only for those striving to earn an honest living, but also for individuals who, as human beings, are meant not just to innovate and succeed for themselves, but to contribute to society through their unique talents and brilliance as well.

If women are legally granted equal rights, then ideally, they should strive to secure the basic necessities of life on their own before entering marriage. Doing so can help foster a sense of normalcy and stability not just for themselves, but for society as a whole, regardless of circumstances. Otherwise, even in 2025, many women around the world continue to face expectations of bearing children solely based on the wishes of their husbands or in-laws—often at the cost of their personal autonomy. What? I said, otherwise hat’s the point of having equal rights if, in practice, some individuals still rely on taxpayers or others to raise children they chose to bring into the world? Legal equality should come with a sense of personal responsibility—not only for one’s own life, but for the lives one creates. Otherwise, the gap between rights and reality remains wide, and society bears the consequences.

Moreover, it is unwise to model love and marriage after the lifestyles of the rich and famous, as these are often unrealistic and unattainable for most people. Politicians frequently make grand promises about protecting women, but the reality on the ground often tells a different story. If governments, religions, and even the concept of God cannot protect the women who already exist and suffer from inhumanity and crimes, how can they genuinely claim to protect those who are yet to be born?

It is evident that humans are often swayed by empty slogans and enticing speeches from politicians and political parties worldwide. Despite knowing the truth—that little has changed for many people and their children over the past fifty or even a hundred years—people continue to hold onto hope for a better life. This psychological tendency to cling to hope, even when based on hollow words, is deeply ingrained. While philosophical words can inspire and captivate, they should not replace meaningful action and tangible change.

Furthermore, in some states or countries, women can only achieve certain opportunities through reservations or quotas. But why should reservations be necessary if women are intelligent and capable of achieving success on their own, provided they have equal rights?Otherwise, having equal rights for females in a country but still having a reservation for them doesn’t that constitute gender discrimination?

Having equal rights as women does not mean adopting habits such as smoking, excessive drinking, substance abuse, or involvement in criminal behavior. Women have a unique and critical responsibility to nurture a healthy child during pregnancy. It’s essential to recognize that in many parts of the world, people still lack access to affordable or free electricity and clean water. What a pregnant woman consumes and inhales can, in part, affect the developing child in her womb. Therefore, it is vital for a woman’s body to be free from toxins, starting from the moment she understands the impact of unhealthy choices, up until the time she ceases bearing children.

Governments should take on the legal responsibility of educating women about the importance of maintaining a toxin-free body for the sake of their own health and their children’s well-being. Failing to prioritize this issue could instead enrich pharmaceutical companies and their stakeholders while leaving women vulnerable, even to the point of exploitation or addiction.

The reality is that the global financial system operates and stabilizes based on the continuous cycle of making and spending money by citizens to sustain the economy. In this system, everyone alive needs basic necessities: food, clean water, clothing, and shelter. Unfortunately, even in modern times, achieving these essentials remains a challenge for many, emphasizing the importance of addressing these disparities effectively.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 3. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

The standard of various factors, including education, contributes significantly to the value of a State or Country as a whole. These same conditions can either stabilize or deteriorate the economy of a particular State or Country. Therefore, it is crucial to have intelligent, honest, and capable individuals in the Government, as part of the Government, and as its employees in any State or Country. Otherwise, a large portion of society may become dependent on unlawful activities, such as prostitution or drug dealing.

Globally, financial systems demonstrate that economies, real lives, and realities do not operate based on sentiments and emotions. Supporting this claim is the reality that, almost everywhere in the world, children are abandoned in various ways by their parents, ignored, or even exploited by others. Even after gaining independence for fifty to one hundred years, a State or Country with one billion people might have only two hundred million taxpayers or fewer. This situation arises because individuals’ financial circumstances, living standards, and education often prevent them from paying taxes.

In many States and Countries worldwide, Governments face challenges in providing citizens with the resources they need to improve their living standards and economies. Citizens, in turn, struggle to pay taxes when their honest and hard-earned income cannot afford basic facilities and amenities. Even those capable of paying taxes might resist doing so. Consequently, when families, villages, towns, cities, States, Countries, or the world are in such situations, it suggests that Governments and their employees focus primarily on maintaining jobs for themselves rather than addressing the needs of their citizens. Ultimately, it is the responsibility of Governments to empower their citizens to grow and thrive in all aspects.

It is easy to display patriotism and talk about humanity by making movies, singing songs, putting up flags, and writing about it. However, the real meaning of patriotism and humanity is far more complex. True patriotism and humanity are not merely about having a State or Country where a few wealthy individuals live lavishly. Instead, they should represent a society where no individual is desperate or struggling to have required basic in life. What? I said, in our country almost all the businesses run by taking loans. So, whoever has money in the bank may contribute to being able to issue all kinds of loans. Can be true.

Otherwise, all kinds of corruption and criminal behavior often disregard humanity and patriotism because the mindset and actions of such individuals differ from those of sober and ethical people. If a State or Country lacks intelligent and capable individuals in its Government and among its employees, the system may rely on inhumanity while preaching lessons of humanity. This can lead to an increase in prostitution, drug dealing, and other criminal activities, while the number of scientists and engineers remains minimal. Only through advancements in technology and machinery can people worldwide be freed from their struggles and miseries. Otherwise, most humans will continue to live solely for the sake of acquiring basic necessities.

Furthermore, it is impossible to overcome struggles and miseries in a society where citizens are dominated by religious radicalism and fanaticism, yet lack scientists and engineers. In 2016, one cannot justify or defend outdated, harmful, or inhumane practices in religion, governance, or society by citing historical examples from hundreds or thousands of years ago. What was acceptable in the past, such as having large families or living in primitive conditions, may now be considered backward or inappropriate.

Humanity must learn from the past but also improve upon it with a higher level of understanding and common sense. As human civilization evolves, so must our concepts of humanity and progress. Without a strong presence of scientists, engineers, philosophers, and educators in a religion, State, or Country, it is impossible to free humanity from its struggles and miseries. Alarmingly, in some countries, males still exploit children and females under the guise of religious or divine permission, ranging from sexual exploitation to various forms of slavery. This raises a critical question: what truly defines a real man?

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 4. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

I don’t believe or trust everything I’ve been told to obey, follow, and believe religiously, spiritually, or in the name of God. I understand the topic is about the birth of a child, but having insights into these aspects is crucial—even before bringing someone into this world. The genuine version of beliefs, religion, spirituality, and gods cannot truly exist in or around humans, especially when almost everyone is directly or indirectly destroying, manipulating, or exploiting innocent individuals to make a living or live lavishly in their name.

In this era of the Internet, every human should have the capabilities, abilities, and flexibility to understand almost everything independently. This is essential to reevaluate and redefine things in a manner that aligns with the current time, situations, and circumstances—even if God or gods truly exist. If humans do not wish to use their own intellect, they might preserve everything as it has been so far, or adapt and improve upon it as their mentality and understanding evolve, providing more options. However, while some might limit themselves to raising two children responsibly, others—who don’t even have enough food for themselves—might have fifteen children under the banner of religion and God.

Before the Internet’s existence, understanding even this much independently was impossible. But now, it is achievable, especially considering that most forms of education seem geared toward supporting broken systems. Humans should always strive to improve upon their past rather than clinging to illusionary beliefs, particularly ones rooted in desperation, illiteracy, or poverty. For instance, I once conversed with a newly appointed electrical engineer working at a hydroelectric dam. As we talked, I asked how the hydro power company was doing. He mentioned everything was fine except that due to heavy rain, the river’s silt levels were high, forcing them to shut down all the turbines to prevent blade damage. He explained that replacing turbine blades is not only time-consuming but also extremely expensive.

This made me wonder: when there is an abundance of water and its associated power, how is it that electricity cannot be generated—especially when it’s desperately needed? Furthermore, the financial loss from turbine shutdowns could potentially amount to millions or billions of dollars per hour. How could such an oversight occur in dam construction? Additionally, as we know, sand is vital to many people’s livelihoods. If nearby rivers provide free sand, even poor individuals might be able to build better houses. Otherwise, the cost of a truckload of sand can be exorbitant, coupled with higher fuel consumption due to imports. This, in turn, may worsen public health due to pollution, while governments profit from fuel taxes of 40–50% per liter. I remarked sarcastically, ‘Good for the government!

Interestingly, I recently read that China has successfully turned deserts into lush green forests. This demonstrates the potential for humans to create solutions when equipped with knowledge, innovation, and a proactive mindset.

During the monsoon season, I recall experiencing a similar issue with silt when I was occasionally in charge of grinding flour at a water mill during my childhood. The silt would sometimes dislodge the wooden plates attached to the water mill’s turbine. I used to visit the watermill mill after school or during holidays, fascinated by its technology. That fascination made my free time during school days enjoyable and fulfilling. Back then, when people or children had limited knowledge, their world of work, enjoyment, and living life fully was also limited. Yet, those limitations often brought peace and satisfaction, allowing life to be lived fully without reliance on substances like alcohol or drugs.

Even though marijuana trees grew naturally along creeks and around the water mill, people or children who were unaware of its uses or value didn’t care for it—even its smell. This highlights how people’s thinking, needs, knowledge, ignorance, and addictions shape their lives. In 2017, marijuana became legal in many states and countries worldwide, and it is sometimes used medicinally. However, I believe that exposing and teaching children about certain things may not always be necessary. Otherwise, some might start selling marijuana or hashish as early as age ten instead of attending school. This could stem from the harsh reality that, after completing their education, they may struggle to find jobs or be forced to work for minimum wages.

In the Internet age, even ten-year-olds can grasp the challenges of life—such as the difficulty of finding employment or the misery of living on minimum wages after completing school, college, or university. In the real world of humans and humanity, money not only rules but also dictates the cycles of right and wrong. Therefore, it is crucial to seriously consider how many children one should bring into the world. Otherwise, both children and parents may face suffering instead of living life fully.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 5. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

Some people who grow up in a particular kind of village or on a small farm may never experience certain things, even after moving to a world-class city or a desert filled with luxurious houses and apartments. Ironically, some individuals living in luxury cannot even step out without security. Even those living a normal life often feel neither safe nor free in many so-called world-class cities, especially knowing that a significant number of people carry pistols for self-protection. Is this the definition of a world-class city or a powerful country? Perhaps these are just my thoughts. Well, then, am I 100% human, alien, or robot? What about the rest of you?

That being said, everyone, directly or indirectly, bears the responsibility for legally or illegally born children. I believe that, in the internet era, children who grow up in villages surrounded by the beauty of nature should never have to move to chaotic cities. Many cities worldwide are dangerous in various ways, and the concept of “world-class cities” might not exist at all in reality. I doubt that many people from villages find happiness, even after moving to a so-called world-class city, whether legally or illegally. To me, the true meaning of “world-class” is a place where poverty, crime, and criminals are non-existent.

However, in reality, while living in these so-called world-class cities, people often have to secure their homes with three locks, and homelessness is rampant on the streets. It seems that “world-class” is a term that exists only in words, not in reality or everyday life. Despite these conditions, most states, cities, and countries claim to have the best police forces and law enforcement systems, insisting that citizens must pay taxes. Yet, ironically, couples in love still bring children into this beautiful—or perhaps harsh—world, regardless of whether their nation is the most powerful or the least.

What? I am asking, how can someone consider themselves powerful, educated, with a growing economy, world-class, and civilized when the reality on the ground tells a very different story? Well, go and figure it out. So, why should people pay taxes? People pay taxes with the expectation of a better and safer life wherever they live. Am I right? What? I heard someone say something. Yes, I agree—you’re right, but not entirely fair. Why? Because you left out that in some world-class cities and even in the poorest areas, I have to cover myself from head to toe against my will. Yet, still, people say, ‘God is great.’ Sometimes, believing in the greatness of something might be the only way to bring about change and fairness. After all, the world people live in is constantly changing—none of our realities are exactly the same as they were even a year ago, last month, or in some cases, yesterday. Anyways, moving on.

If I’m not mistaken, there was a time when children could walk miles to school without fear of being kidnapped or harmed along the way. Today, however, some parents who are aware of current realities must think carefully about these issues before bringing children into this world, even if they already have more than enough resources for their lives and their children’s. On the other hand, those who have nothing might be pushed to harm, destroy, or even kill just to have a meal. This makes me wonder: what’s the difference between a bullying government or system and one that is truly just and capable?

To me, a just government and system means motivating people to take action willingly and out of their own interest—not having to govern with a metaphorical ‘stick’ just to get citizens to pay taxes. How can anyone legally force people to pay taxes or endure deductions when they can’t even afford the basic facilities and amenities necessary for themselves and their children to be mentally and physically healthy? What? I said, it seems like a one-way street. Yes, many don’t willingly pay taxes, not because they refuse, but because they simply can’t afford to.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 6. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

Under such circumstances in a State or Country, what truly is the difference between grown-up, educated adults, children, or a bully government and their system? Oh my, do people still believe that gods and goddesses are in charge of everything? What? I thought I heard a child’s voice. Yes, I said, it seems like there is no good God, neither effective education nor many competent engineers and experts. For example, without floodgates at the bottom of a dam, there’s no way to flush out or clean the silt that accumulates in dams since their construction. What does this mean? It means more problems for me as I grow older—like not having sufficient electricity to use, or raising children in a world where such shutdowns occur frequently. This implies that children worldwide will face the reality of more silt stored in dams and less water, resulting in more power outages. I can only hope my government didn’t use my tax money to build such dams.

Your tax money? But you mentioned you’re ten years old. So what? In the internet age, some children start paying taxes as early as seven or even five years old. Oh, I see. You’re right—I almost forgot about that. Anyway, thanks for sharing this information; otherwise, there’s no way schools would teach me about such topics in so-called ‘world-class’ educational institutions. But I don’t blame you for thinking that way—everyone has the right to live their life comfortably and fully, especially if they start paying taxes at such a young age. Hello! I even began paying sales tax on baby products while growing in the womb! Is that funny? I heard someone laugh, but in the internet age, children can often be smarter and more knowledgeable than older men like me.

Furthermore, some baby pictures and videos on the World Wide Web can generate more money in a week or month than I earned in thirty years while living in a country like the USA. And who made this possible for babies to earn money in the internet age? Very simple—the person who invented the internet. Otherwise, by now, everyone should know the truth about their governments, systems, humans, and the world as it existed before the internet’s arrival. If, in 2017, someone still doesn’t have high-speed internet and computers, their educational institutions might not teach about these topics at all. Moreover, states or countries lacking adequate infrastructure to keep computers safe in schools—or not having them at all—prevent students from competing equally with others.

Now, as responsible parents, it’s essential not to rely solely on lucrative speeches, false promises, or outdated beliefs. Parents with legal rights and freedoms should encourage their children to pursue something meaningful within the framework of legality and their aspirations. Especially when it comes to inventing something that will not only solve the problems that occur on a daily basis but also provide just the required basics in life. Otherwise, just to have the basics in life, some or almost everyone either has to work until their death or are forced to choose the criminal path.

Anyway, back to the point—when I used to be in charge of a water mill during the rainy season, the rise in silt levels would often knock out, crack, or dislodge some of the wooden plates attached to the homemade turbine of the water mill. If three or four wooden plates were knocked out of place, the water mill would either stop or move very slowly. This would slow down or completely halt the process of grinding grains into flour. In such cases, if someone came to pick up their flour the next day, it wouldn’t be ready. As a result, a family of twenty, which might include ten adults and ten children, would have nothing to eat.

Believe me, back then, people living in hilly villages and small farms who relied on agriculture or horticulture work, including myself, never experienced weight or digestive problems. Most ten-year-olds ate the same amount of food as adults in cities without gaining even a hundred grams. This explains why many civilizations historically settled along riverbanks, especially when there was no technology, machinery, or electricity.

To prevent the water mill from breaking down, I remember installing an extra strainer myself. This strainer was placed before water entered the hand-carved wooden pipe, which was open at the top. Water would fall from a height, through a narrow path, and hit the wooden plates with full pressure, moving the homemade turbine. This ingenious setup would power the mill, which could move a round, hand-carved stone weighing anywhere from 300 kilograms to one ton, like a jet engine in a water mill. Meanwhile, the bottom stone remained stationary. These stones were carved by hand and carried to the water mill by men along narrow, hilly paths.

The reason I’m sharing all this is to highlight that the options and conveniences Earthly humans have today do not solely exist because of educated people, political leaders, or armed forces, but also because of the efforts of people who once survived almost entirely on their own, without the aid of technologies or machines.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 7. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

“OK, I am not talking about the time when the Pyramids were constructed. I am talking about the time between 1970 to 1980 or even until 1990. Looking around, does anyone remember cooking and eating boiled potatoes with fresh homemade butter at the water mill after stealing them from home? What kind of dish was that? Especially the ones that couldn’t be prepared at home for all the family members. And why would someone do so after having lunch at home? Who cares, as long as some teenagers are always hungry and can digest tons of food without gaining even one kilogram.

Besides that, when someone’s system works that way, or when you are very hungry, believe me, everything tastes better than the five-star super deluxe hotel food made by a world-class chef. But worldwide, in five-star hotels, as mostly rich people from around the world and nationally can afford to stay, eat, and drink, the international standard of hygiene, food storage, and serving food and drinks at the right temperature is required. Otherwise, if someone falls sick or dies from food poisoning or filthy accommodation, the hotel chain may go bankrupt because of lawsuits. In that case, even the government would lose some of the flow of hard currency.

What? I said, otherwise, as everyone knows, parents living below the poverty line, poor or struggling middle class, may reuse and wash the same baby diaper many times. And in the internet era, everyone should know what can happen if even baby poop, stool, or feces gets inside human bodies and the bloodstream. So, it is not safe at all to do your business in the open air under the sky or in any kind of toilet and then wash yourself with bare hands. What? I said, in my country, medical treatment up to a certain amount is free. Well, still, I don’t think anyone wants to end up in a hospital, including children.

Well then, every parent must teach their children that having money in abundance and many inventions can save humans from so many deadly diseases. Because only then can earthly humans afford proper accommodation, clean water, food, and all kinds of beverages to keep their children and themselves disease-free. I mean, if after having everything, most of them still don’t get addicted to cocaine, alcohol, smoking, opioids, and many kinds of pills to get high and live their lives fully. Looking around, who is laughing? I told you that being human and being any kind of good parent is not easy at all, or most earthly humans and their DNA may have deteriorated almost to the core.

What? I said, good, because only then can I send Adam and Eve again, naked, into whatever kind of garden. Hey, start from scratch. And as I wrote many times, no prior education or experience is required to make babies. Well, well, well, sometimes even I don’t have any idea if we are all living in a fictional world or reality. Because if you think calmly, deeply, and elaborately, it may seem like the same strategy most parents used to create some kind of fear in their out-of-control children by telling them some kind of fictional story.

Otherwise, everyone knows, that how bad Education department and Health department can be in their State or a Country when it comes to providing a particular kind of education in time to everyone. Beside this everyone knows about their Municipal or City halls when it comes to keeping at least everything up to the standard in public places and all kinds of Shops. These all things are not only required to be perfect at least in 21st century to be Mentally and Physically healthy, but also can be helpful to grow Economically while keeping the value of Currency strong. And by now as everyone should know that these all perfections make Children future Financially and Health-wise easier and better to live too.

Otherwise, I don’t think, that it is always about how the Food taste, but taste of the Food may also depend up on the density of appetite or Hunger too. But to reach at that point of whatever require some hard and difficult Physical work too. Which these days even in the Villages are done by a easy way, or not at all by Farmers themselves. Otherwise, if someone is Hungry because of doing some hard Physical work in Agriculture and Horticulture, then most of self-grown all kinds of Food not only, but beside that someone can have a 7- or 8-Hours deep sleep in the Night too. Well, then I have no idea, that if particular kind of change in Villages are going to make Children Physically and mentally stronger or weaker. Otherwise, even when People can afford to choose a taste and flavor of all kinds including related to Food and Beverages, still so many new problems related to weight, and other things starts.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 8. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

And most, or all, of the children after a particular age almost eat and drink the same food and beverages as their parents. Otherwise, those with lots of money to spend may start eating for the sake of flavor and taste without even being hungry, which may overload the digestive system. What? I said, don’t worry—in such cases, the system might vomit to ease the weight of the overload. That is not good. And even in a country like the USA, everyone knows what happens when people have to work two jobs just to have a roof over their heads and food on the table twice a day for themselves and their children.

Otherwise, even boiled potatoes, fresh buffalo homemade butter, and some salt can be the best dish in the whole world. What? I said, especially if it’s cooked at a water mill. Yeah. But back then, we didn’t know about the existence of mashed potatoes; still, we not only cooked them but also enjoyed eating them. Because even just walking up and down a hilly path every day—two kilometers while going to school—can make someone very hungry. And still, whenever I do so, even in old age, I sleep like a baby for at least seven hours. What? I said, most old people become babies again. Hello, yet I am not in that kind of mental and physical stage. And without marrying anyone, I can still make 365 babies per year. Mumbling—but to do so, at least I need a trillion US dollars. Not a problem, just a change. Looking around, who is laughing? You’d better take a few things seriously, instead of thinking that someone not only became a baby again in old age but is also on a liquid diet.

Otherwise, in the monsoon season, to keep the water mill running smoothly and steadily, I had to clean the water path and remove the silt from it more frequently—from the creek to the point where the water enters the wooden pipe of the water mill. If not cleaned, the water path from the creek to the water mill would fill up very quickly with silt. The water required to power the water mill would then spill back into the creek by breaking the banks of the water path, instead of reaching the turbine of the watermill.

Actually, if I am not entirely wrong, silt is basically sand. So, while I was talking to a newly appointed electrical engineer working at a dam, I asked him if there was any kind of outlet at the bottom of the dam. Because when there is excess water in the dam, such an outlet could be opened to flush some of the silt or soil out of the dam with the water. Otherwise, more silt and soil will accumulate in the area occupied by the dam, leaving less space for water. He said there isn’t any such system in the dam.

“OK, long story short, I may be wrong, because I never attended any engineering school, college, or university. But I was thinking—if there isn’t a built-in system in the dam to flush out or clean the deposited silt, sand, or soil, then no matter how big the dam is, it will fill up with more silt, sand, and soil within a few years. This would mean more silt stored in the dam, but less water. OK, I could be completely wrong, but if I’m right, how come no one thought about this before building the dam to generate electricity? Project managers, engineers, and educated individuals are involved in such projects. Thinking about this isn’t rocket science—it’s more like common sense.

What? I heard someone say something. Yeah, I said, we all—from project managers to engineers—may have been born and raised in world-class cities, studying in world-class schools, colleges, and universities, without any water mill experience at all. See, that’s why someone couldn’t think of it. But anyone who grew up in a village with a water mill could figure it out, even as a ten-year-old.

But don’t taxpayers pay taxes to store water in a dam, not silt, sand, and soil? Why am I writing all of this here? Because the children being born today will need more and more affordable electricity.

Well, now please don’t tell me that God, Religion, and religious scripts in religious books instructed someone to do many things, nor did humans follow orders from the Gods without objection. Otherwise, in the future, maybe no one will believe in the existence of Gods and Religion. Especially now, as more and more children are being educated about almost everything—not only through the syllabus chosen for them but also through their own curiosity. Especially after gaining access to the Internet. Because of this, even ten-year-olds evaluate many things independently.

But let’s imagine for a moment that God or Gods are truly in charge of everything. Then how can the world under the right version of God or Gods and Religion become so chaotic, messy, and inhumane globally? Especially when it comes to the exploitation of children and females worldwide. Therefore, the version of God and Religion being practiced may not be the original or correct version.

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What? I heard someone say something in a very childlike voice. Yeah, I said, maybe some humans try to hide their inabilities or shortcomings by involving their own version of gods and religions in everything. Oh my, how did you, being ten years old, reach this conclusion? Hello, I was born and grew up in the era of the Internet, computers, and smartphones, and now, at ten years old, I run a water mill in my village twenty-four-seven nonstop from my room without any silt in the water, no matter what. I see, very smart. Therefore, whatever I am taught in school, besides that, I have access to all kinds of materials like yours on the Internet for free. Hello, but it says ‘Parent discretion advised.’ Yeah. Well, even if that’s in place, I can still break into all kinds of stuff. Really? Yeah! Being ten years old? Yeah, that’s right.

Otherwise, beyond this, in the form of sexuality and some of its actions, I not only see it practically in the school I attend but also all over public places and even in some family shows on television and at home too. Therefore, being ten years old, I made my own version of religion and God to follow and practice. Oh, I see. Because I observed that whenever someone starts to make money, their ‘God,’ most things around them begin to relax in many ways—even those that were otherwise conservative or restricted due to poverty or lack of financial independence.

Well, actually, I didn’t talk to any ten-year-old, but it could still be true that ten-year-olds growing up with computers and smartphones can be smarter than some older people. Well then, what kind of religion, culture, tradition, god, spirituality, and laws will exist in the future? Especially if, in reality, someone in the future, being ten years old, figures out the difference between fiction and facts about life, humans, humanity, and the world. Well then, future generations might think that some humans created many things just to hide their inabilities and failures. And believe me, none of the children in the world expect the same kind of excuses from their parents after a certain age, for sure.

But one thing is certain: in the Internet era, even children have to develop thick skin, especially when exposed to all kinds of vulgarity and bullying on the World Wide Web. Otherwise, if someone is sentimental and sensitive, they may not be able to even talk to someone on the World Wide Web, nor will they be able to upload their content.

Otherwise, in most countries, children are exposed to vulgarity and domestic violence within their families from a young age, often as early as five. This is especially evident when parents interact at home, misusing freedom of speech to dominate one another. On the internet, individuals who speak English with a thick accent often feel proud and modern by frequently using the “F-word,” regardless of whether they are expressing positive or negative emotions. The word seems to fit every context seamlessly.

However, I wonder if some people have created their own versions of religion and God to conceal their shortcomings and failures. Observing what individuals can do to their own family members, relatives, and friends for money, assets, or even sex, one might start to believe that religions, gods, and goddesses were created by humans for self-serving purposes—either to gain benefits or to mask their inadequacies and failures.

In the 21st century, it has perhaps become more challenging for parents to decide what they should teach their children about these matters. Nevertheless, everyone is free to make their own evaluations and judgments. This is especially true in places where political parties can still win elections based solely on enticing slogans and speeches, while the reality on the ground continues to worsen and become more chaotic. If stability is lacking locally, nationally, and internationally, the future of children may not be as bright as some claim.

Moreover, the smoke generated by financial successes and economic growth not only reduces visibility but also damages children’s lungs. Despite all this, everyone on Earth is born without a state, country, religion, or clothes. If I am not mistaken, God—or whoever created humans—may have sent them to Earth in the same way.

What? I said, hello, God created only Adam and Eve without any Religion, and sent them to planet Earth naked. So, rest of the Human got created by their biological parents while Man and Women had Sex. But if everyone on Earth exist because of the Adam and Eve, then doesn’t everyone’s DNA should be the same? What? On the way everything gets changed or someone may be capable of changing the DNA too, to make People fight. Otherwise, without all kinds of conflicts and Wars many Jobs and Businesses can’t survive. No, someone being a Humans can’t be so whatever. Well, then Aliens, immortals or robots can be for sure. Yeah, let me try somewhere else to find the right answers by keeping these Mind fight on. Because to do so, I may have to write thousands of Pages.

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Chapter 1, Birth of a Child. Page 10. From the book Journey of Life, Volume 1. By Mr. Nand L. Verma.

Sometimes, it becomes impossible to reach the right conclusion about certain things as a human. This confusion can make it equally challenging to raise children with the right version of humanity. In such situations, people may choose to lie or pretend, only to find themselves grappling with the truth and reality much later in life—perhaps by the time they are 65 years old. By then, many might wonder why they should even bother uncovering the truth when it seems meaningless.

This mindset could lead some to make opportunistic choices, like marrying a wealthy older person, calculating that they may not live longer than 5 or 10 years. Of course, the humor here is not lost—it’s not always about younger spouses either. Yet, knowing the true nature of humans is an elusive endeavor, unless one had access to a computer system that recorded every thought of Earthly humans automatically and anonymously.

The idea that internal wishes or prayers can reach one’s God is intriguing. If humans’ thoughts and actions could be controlled remotely through some form of cloud computing hardware and software, one might wonder: who would distribute particular kinds of data to certain individuals? Such systems would need to be automated as well. These are merely speculative thoughts stemming from the process of thinking deeply about humanity.

Interestingly, economists often make similar speculative predictions about their country’s economy 10, 20, or even 50 years into the future. Yet, unforeseen events—such as the COVID pandemic—can drastically alter those forecasts. For example, while a 30 trillion USD economy 40 years from now might equate to only 5 trillion USD today, I can’t say for certain. To understand these concepts better, studying economics at a reputable school, college, or university would be necessary.

Inflation and rising interest rates can make purchasing homes or businesses on loans increasingly difficult. While this may seem detrimental to economic growth, experts have varied perspectives. Frankly, economics can be as confusing today as it was during pre-university days. If you have in-depth questions, consulting actual experts in this field would be best.

But how does this relate to the birth of a child? It underscores the importance of understanding reality and truth early in life—even as children. This preparation allows individuals to face the challenges of life, humanity, and systemic structures. As everyone knows, if a child’s parents suddenly pass away or are rendered incapable due to poverty and illiteracy, life on the streets or in foster homes can be an extremely harsh reality.

Whether someone is aware of the process of childbirth before engaging in sexual activity or not, it remains a fact that unprotected sex between men and women can result in pregnancy and the birth of a child. Regardless of awareness, individuals may still find themselves legally obligated to pay child support. In some cases, there might even be deliberate attempts to keep someone uninformed about the process, which, if true, could be considered illegal.

Beyond this, even a legally reasonable doubt can be significant. It’s worth reflecting on what might be considered the root cause of such issues. By 2017, children under the age of 18 with access to the internet, smartphones, or computers were likely aware of the processes and consequences related to sex and sexuality. This includes the risks of engaging in sexual activities at a young age, the importance of using protection to prevent pregnancy, and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases.

A brief moment of sexual pleasure—lasting eight to thirteen minutes—can lead to severe consequences, even putting someone at risk of life-threatening situations. For those who are virgins or not sexually active on a regular basis, the duration of such encounters might be shorter, ranging from a minute to thirty seconds. Over time, with repeated experiences, the duration may increase, provided there’s no rush or fear of being caught. On the other hand, for those who are not virgins or are sexually active regularly, shorter durations in initial encounters might still be considered normal.

If someone lacks knowledge about these matters, professionals might diagnose conditions like premature ejaculation. However, as I’ve mentioned before, I don’t hold any degrees or expertise in this field. It’s essential to rely on scientifically and medically proven information and consult experts for accurate guidance.

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